Some might question the meaning of Bible verse Luke
14:26 above.
My understanding has always been that the expression is used
to indicate the intensity of devotion
one should have toward God in comparison with earthly kinship. This verse
does not refer to literal hating of family members.
St. Kyril wrote thus, “Some perchance may say, Lord, dost Thou despise the laws of natural
affection? Shall we then make those
enemies who are members of the same household? This is not what the Savior means. It is plain by what He said that He permits
us to love, but not more than we do Him.
For He demands for Himself our chief affection and that very
justly. For the love of God in those who
are perfect in mind has something in it superior both to the honor due to
parents and to the natural affection felt for children…”